Freedom of Chastity

I have spent my whole life wanting to be loved. I don’t want some imitation where a guy can
show up for the good times and then leave for the bad times. I don’t want a guy who treats me like I’m
an option that he can come back to when he wants to and leave when he doesn’t. I want real, true love. I want forever love. I want exclusive love. I want crazy love. I want an adventure. I want deep and spontaneous
and beautiful, authentic love. That is why I choose to live chastity. There are a lot of myths out there about chastity. People think that it’s some kind of strange,
repressive thing. People think that it’s just about rules. And I’m going to be honest with you. If I thought that there was a rule that was
keeping me from real love, I would break that rule. Because chastity isn’t about rules. It’s not about what you can’t do. It’s not about what you can’t have. Chastity is about a love that is so real and
so radical and so passionate, that it’s worth throwing the rulebook out
the window for. What is actually comes down to is that chastity
is a choice to believe in real love. Chastity means that I get to save sex and
sexually intimate acts for marriage. Did you hear that? I GET to save sex and sexually intimate acts
for marriage. It’s not something I have to do. It’s something that I choose because it’s
the best option. Because it’s the option that leaves me fulfilled. It means I don’t have to wake up the next morning wondering, Do I have an STD? Am I pregnant? Was he just using me, or does he really love
me? Is he gonna leave? Does he even know my name? I don’t have to worry about those things. Because I live chastity, I get to have love
without fear. It means that one day, I’m going to stand
in front of an altar. And I’m going to look a man in the eyes and
he’s going to look at me, and he’s going to say, “You and only you. Until death do us part.” “Everything that I am is yours.” And I’m going to repeat the same thing back
to him. And I’m going to tell him that I loved him
so much that I was loving him, I was fighting for him before I ever met him. And it’s only after we’ve made that vow in
front of that altar and our friends and our family, family, once we’ve made that vow to each other, that
we’re going to make that vow again with our bodies. That’s the beauty of chastity. Chastity means speaking the truth with your
words and with your actions. Chastity is for everyone. It’s for people who believe that no matter
what has happened in the past, there is a plan and a purpose for our lives. And that part of that plan is for us to have
the love that our hearts are made for. I don’t wanna settle. I don’t wanna give up on real love. I don’t wanna stop hoping for the love that
I desire. I believe in love. And that is why I live chastity.

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